Travelling alone
Dear Solo Traveller
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Dear Solo Traveller,
Travelling alone is a particular kind of freedom. You wake when you want, change plans on a whim, linger in the museum for three hours if you like.
It can also be lonely, and sometimes worrying. Both of those things are true, and neither should stop you.
Here is a letter about doing it well.
What we love
♥Eating alone
Sit at a counter or bar where solo dining feels natural. Bring a book if it helps. After the first time, it becomes a pleasure.
♥Meeting people
Walking tours, cooking classes and hostels with common areas are easy ways to meet others without commitment.
♥Following your own pace
There is no compromise on the itinerary. Use that.
What we'd tell a friend
- Share your plans
- Let someone at home know your itinerary and check in regularly.
- Arrive in daylight
- Where possible, arrive in a new place during the day, with your route to your accommodation planned.
- Accommodation
- Choose well-reviewed places in central, busy neighbourhoods. Read recent reviews by other solo travellers.
- Trust your instincts
- If something feels wrong, leave. You do not owe anyone politeness at the expense of your safety.
- Research
- Check official travel advice for the destination, including specific guidance for women and LGBTQ+ travellers where relevant.
This is general guidance. Prices, timetables, opening hours and entry rules change, so please check the official sources below before you travel.
Handle with care
Solo travellers often have more freedom to connect with local people. Use it thoughtfully: be curious, listen more than you talk, and respect people who do not want to chat.
Before you go
- US State Department travel advice ↗ (opens an external site)
- UK Foreign travel advice ↗ (opens an external site)
Dear Solo Traveller, you are never quite alone. Write to us from the road.
With love,
The WTWL Team
Written June 2026
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